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Re: Bored at home who wants to talk

I’m all tense

Re: Bored at home who wants to talk

cant sit with this tenseness any more

Re: Bored at home who wants to talk

Hey @ArraDreaming I wish I could have been here for you a couple of nights ago - it seems like you had a really tough night 😢 I hope things have improved a bit for you and this weekend brings a lot of joy and light for you.

 

Thanks so much for your concern also. I am okay. Had a really tough day and I was really angry - still angry but not letting it get on top of me. I will have plenty of time to do that over the holidays so I am just looking forward to the last week this week with my kids. I am going to miss this class a lot. The class I had last year was the same but I still get visits nearly everyday from some of them (and they like to raid our cupboards for art supplies lol). 

 

I have to tell you a story - there is this boy in the next door class that I absolutely adore. He reminds me of you - when he cannot regulate, he gets distructive. But he is the most beautiful, kind and caring soul underneath. This morning he came up to me to tell me about some biscuits that were in the staffroom. I thought he had made them and was asking me to get them for him - but no ...he had made some and put them in a christmas jar for me. Long story short - I had a few tears as it was definitely something I did not expect and the smile on his face when he saw me with his present was so big. He came and gave me a hug and of course the tears came again. It is those moments in our days that we need to hold onto because they are what matter.

Re: Bored at home who wants to talk

It’s ok @Zoe7 nobody can be around all the time
Sorry I don’t have a lot in me reply right now either but definitely read your response

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Hey @ArraDreaming That is quite okay - some days are tough. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and very much value our connection here. You have actually been a little extra light in my life over the past couple of weeks 😁

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Just had a rough night @Zoe7 I’m ok
Thanks for your kind message you know there isn’t a lot of people I talk to on here Aside from the mods and that and you have helped me by being a friend and being patient with me so thanks @Zoe7
thanks heaps what’s on for your weekend?

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I consider you a friend on here too @ArraDreaming ❤️ It is tough when you cannot engage as you would like at times but you have come soooo far and you really should be proud of yourself. I certainly did not want to give up on you as I can see so many wonderful qualities in you. Those times you get angry and frustrated are not the real you - stress can certainly heighten our emotions but we need to see past that for the beautiful person you are under that stress. 

 

I am taking it pretty easy this weekend. I have some work to get done for school so I do not have too much to do in the holidays but am doing a little at a time. I also have some things to cut up for the kids to make christmas trees this week - that part will be fun as I love doing that stuff.

 

What about you? How are the kids and Mrs jay5?

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Thanks @Zoe7 there’s not a lot more for me to say apart from thanks that message just put a huge smile on my face
We are all well here our oldest son hurt his wrist yesterday and has to have a splint but he’s jumping around like nothing happened now… it’s our 1st wedding anniversary this weekend so we are going out somewhere special to celebrate
Mrs jay5 is a bit stressed because we havent left the baby with anybody else before and she still feeds so she is a bit worried about how we are going to go out for dinner but we will go and come home early if we need to, that’s not till tonight so we are hanging at home for now @Zoe7

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No thanks needed @ArraDreaming but thank you for letting me know it put a smile on your face 😁

 

1 year hey - that is something ❤️ You have such a wonderful little family there and I am sure you will help Mrs jay5 enjoy your evening together - and as you said - you can come home early if you need to. Make the most of the time together tonight.

 

OMG - kids are so resilient. I hope he does not do anymore damage.

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They said do nothing that could risk reinjury or he will need a cast but like… try telling that to him @Zoe7 lol yeah it will be a nice night