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26 May 2016 06:29 PM - edited 26 May 2016 06:31 PM
26 May 2016 06:29 PM - edited 26 May 2016 06:31 PM
Hi @Former-Member I did find that for a little while but realized through that experience that I needed to have boundaries on how involved I was with certain topics. So it is not effecting me in that way as much now as I pulled back a bit in those areas.
Sorry to hear things are difficult for you too at the moment. You know we are here if you do want to talk. 🙂
26 May 2016 06:35 PM
26 May 2016 06:35 PM
26 May 2016 07:09 PM
26 May 2016 07:20 PM
26 May 2016 07:20 PM
I wish right now I wasn't at home. So much arguing hubby and kids, omg i need another drink. i have had a shit day at work; 😞 😞 😞
26 May 2016 07:30 PM
26 May 2016 07:30 PM
Hi @BlueBay
💜☮🔮🌉🍇☂👚
Just looking for all the purple things I can find to send you, to help you think of the purple ball ...
Your family might be full of arguments tonight but it won't stay that way.
Find somewhere quiet to think peaceful thoughts, then send some of them their way ...
💜 Hugs xx
26 May 2016 07:31 PM
26 May 2016 07:31 PM
Hi @BlueBay is there somewhere you can have some quiet time like sitting outside or having a bath? Sorry you've had a rough day. Have been thinking about you lately 🙂
26 May 2016 07:33 PM
26 May 2016 07:33 PM
26 May 2016 07:44 PM
26 May 2016 07:44 PM
Hi @Jacques how was today? Hoping you managed to have your rest day.
26 May 2016 08:06 PM
26 May 2016 08:06 PM
Hi @Faith-and-Hope and @eth
Thanks for the purple hugs and everything else purple. I do remember purple ball from group therapy. I had a bad day, our store was burgled last night and lots of glass everywhere and lots of things stolen. So as a result, lots of work and it was stressful day.
As for home, things have settled down; I will go later to bed with my iphone and put on some mindful meditation and have an early night.
26 May 2016 08:35 PM
26 May 2016 08:35 PM
Hi all,
Just woken from a two hour nap after falling asleep in my chair during Star Trek: Voyager (geek-girl alert... or should I say, geek-mature-woman).
@Jacques, adding another voice of support for you today. I know you may not feel like posting at the moment, but just wanted to send more hugs.
@BlueBay, sorry you are doing it tough today, hugs your way too.
@Snuchu, thinking of you and sending peaceful vibes your way.
@Faith-and-Hope, super juggling mum comes to the rescue again! Hoping your evening is a bit calmer and that you are remembering to 'postpone the worries' as much as possible in between the mini-crises.
@Former-Member, yes, I do find that I take on some of what people describe on the forum and this was more 'raw' to me when I first arrrived here about a year ago. I think it would be surprising if we were not affected by the struggles described. Feeling the pain of others is part of compassion to me but there needs to be limits to it for self care reasons. There is such a thing as 'compassion fatigue' that we need to avoid. If I am feeling I am 'overdoing the compassion', I try to pull back a bit from the forum until I've recovered balance. Overall though I find great meaning and inspiration in us offering support to each other through our various issues with MI.
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