โ20-07-2021 07:48 PM
โ20-07-2021 07:48 PM
That is so hard @bipolarbunny and it sounds also like you've had some really invalidating comments, which wouldn't help! The Carer Gateway may be able to provide some more options and helpful support for you to explore what options might be available. Remeber to take care of yourself also! ๐
โ20-07-2021 07:49 PM
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Yes I agree @Windflowers
The Sane forums for carers have been wonderful help and support to me and to learn how to help my husband MI and my mum more
โ20-07-2021 07:51 PM
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Question 4 for @Shaz51 and the community:
When we do feel like we are at that point of burnout, what does it look like or feel like?
And what things do you do to manage in those moments?
โ20-07-2021 07:52 PM
โ20-07-2021 07:52 PM
What are the symptoms of carer fatigue?
โข Feeling tired and lethargic, even after sleeping
โข Being more irritable, impatient and short-tempered than usual
โข Having difficulty switching off and relaxing
โข Losing interest in things you used to enjoy
โข Feeling anxious, tearful, hopeless or depressed
โข Neglecting yourself, e.g. your personal care and emotional needs
โข Over-eating or not eating enough
โข Sleep disturbance
โข Succumbing to illnesses more often than usual
โข Drinking more alcohol to cope with feelings of stress
โข Feeling that your caring role has taken over your life or that it has become a chore
โข Taking your frustrations out on the person you care for
14 Warning Signs of Caregiver Burnout
โข Lack of energy
โข Overwhelming fatigue
โข Sleep problems (too much or too little)
โข Changes in eating habits; weight loss or gain
โข A feeling of hopelessness
โข Withdrawing from, or losing interest in, activities you once enjoyed
โข Neglecting your own physical and emotional needs
โข Feeling like caregiving is controlling your life
โข Becoming unusually impatient, irritable or argumentative with the person youโre caring for and/or with others
โข Anxiety about the future
โข Depression or mood swings
โข Difficulty coping with everyday things
โข Headaches, stomach-aches, and other physical problems
โข Lowered resistance to illness
โ20-07-2021 07:52 PM
โ20-07-2021 07:52 PM
@bipolarbunny What does your mum say about your brothers not helping? If anything?
โ20-07-2021 07:55 PM
โ20-07-2021 07:55 PM
Thanks @TideisTurning I will check them out. I feel like some days I am drowning.
BB ๐ฐ๐
โ20-07-2021 07:55 PM
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โ20-07-2021 07:56 PM
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Burnout feels like complete inability to function. There is no 'me' in my life and I am just getting through the day not participating or noticing anything.
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