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Hey @NTCAB ,
Sorry I dont get much time when at home to find a quiet time to sit and type (i'm a public servant so plenty of time when i'm at work though 
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I hope things are looking better then they were Thursday.
Everyone has their limits, I find keeping track of prorities helps me when it looks like too much. I had a new nephew born two weeks ago, I live in the same city but haven't met him yet because I have prioritised it next too the current drama in my life and he didn't make the cut. I love babies and family is important to me, it feels crap missing out but I weighed it up against everything else and I don't have the emotional strength or the time to be around my brother and his family at the moment.
What's important to you is going to always be a bit different to anyone else. The worse things get the tighter and more specific I find my priorities become. In a crisis keeping a roof over everyones head and keeping the kids fed can quickly become all that matters, stuff job commitments and peoples feelings when it comes the kids safety.
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