for those strange people who love rabbits

[Bunniekins]

@Sparky79  yes all the cool rabbit loving peeps 😄

[Sparky79]

@Bunniekins lol bunny voyeurs, lmao, saying to themselves in a creepy voice "that's it eat that carrot, oh boy wiggle that nose"

[Bunniekins]

@Sparky79  see you always make me smile 🙂  even when you are feeling low you light up the room that is a gift Sparky79.  not many pple can do that.

[Sparky79]

Aww @Bunniekins I'm glad I can do that for others, lmao was the pun intentional? An electrician lighting up the room? 

[Bunniekins]

@Sparky79  lol wish i could say pun was lol not that quick im afraid 🙂 .  beautiful day here is it sunny for you? if so can you get out in the sun for a bit?

[Sparky79]

@Bunniekins yeah it's looking lovely outside here as well, I think I may bathe in the harsh light of day, I mean I'll stand in the sun for 5 minutes or as long as my pale white skin can take it. Gotta love pommy scottish genes

[Bunniekins]

@Sparky79  something interesting happened today. my eldest said to me that i imagine alot of things that have happened to me are just in my imagination .  it is messing up my head am questioning everything over the past few years which has been making my life difficult might not be real after all.

[Sparky79]

@Bunniekins ummm, is this after you mentioned his drinking?

[Sparky79]

@Bunniekins I'm sorry that's happened to you, if this was said after you've mentioned your concerns with his drinking it could be a case of gaslighting, if it was mentioned without any reference to his drinking it could be preparation for some manipulation. I know we give our children the benefit of the doubt and side with them over others, but it doesn't mean they aren't capable of manipulating us (I won't mention my kids and all I allowed them to destroy, by siding with them and believing their lies and manipulation). I'm not saying your son is, but just keep it in mind as a possibility.

There are a few things here, has he ever said this before? have any of your other kids said this before? could some of these "imagined" things be things your son has caused and feels guilty about, and is trying to alleviate that guilt or is trying to get away for his or others actions? and why decide to bring it up now?

[Bunniekins]

@Sparky79  no i havent addressed his drinking yet.  i was talking about my sister who imagines events in the past which never happened and he said something like 'mum you do the same thing".  i was taken aback and he said on a score my sister would be a gold, my middle son would be a silver and i would be a bronze.