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@rav3n it’s just hard to resist at times. It gets exhausting when the urges are prolonged. I’ve taken a shower (after a few days) and will be having lunch soon. Food is a good first step, I can’t think properly when hungry.

I’m also doing some laundry and will need to take it out later this afternoon. I think I might need to take it slow today, I didn’t sleep well last night. I got those racing thoughts before I fell asleep, then I woke up early to do my bloods. It gets so busy if you arrive later

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i hear you @creative_writer it can be really challenging. do you know what made those urges strong this time? did something happen to trigger them?

 

when we're mentally struggling, it's hard to keep up with hygiene - great job on taking that shower. i hope it helped you feel a lil bit better. oh yep, makes sense about the hunger! it's like that snickers bar ad, "you're not you when you're hungry"... very accurate. 

 

that reminds me, i need to get my blood test done too! i gotta hop off soon but please do be kind to yourself, you're only human. take care 💗

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Heya @creative_writer ,

 

Good to see you. Glad you were able to see to your health today and get your bloods done. 

 

Sounds like you pushed through to get some stuff done which is a start. Well done to you. I recognise it takes a lot more energy and even more when you don't start with the same spoons as everyone else.

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@rav3n my emotions were also heightened yesterday after getting triggered. It might be related to that. I was searching for a way to ease the pain and couldn’t stop myself from giving in. Daily showers can feel like a lot, I do at minimum try to wash certain areas of my body and use deodorant and perfume. I know it’s not the same still. Hunger affects mental health. I’m super sensitive.

I hope you have a lovely rest of the day. Will speak to you when you’re back 💖.

@tyme chronic fatigue and mental health make it hard to leave the house, but I managed. I’m exhausted, but that’s probably expected after waking up early. Sometimes blood tests can also add to the weakness. I couldn’t stop shaking this morning, I was feeling cold and weak even before the test. I was asked if I was okay. I got it over and done with at least

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Chronic fatigue is so so difficult @creative_writer . I didn't realise you have chronic fatigue on top of everything else. It's like you start with 1 spoon each day and you have to make compromises to see how you are going to utilise that spoon.

 

Pretty impressive that you have been able to do what you have done, and accomplish so much. 

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@tyme  chronic fatigue is probably related to living with mental illness and chronic pain. It think sometimes people don’t realise how exhausting chronic pain can be. It’s not only migraines, I get pain from brushing my hair, my hands get super achy. I also get neck pain, pain on various points of my back, knee stiffness. It’s a whole range of things. It’s hard not to feel frustrated. At the end of the day, we can only do what we can to manage the pain. It’s why I’m seeing a rheumatologist next month. I finally heard back from them, it took a long time. Better late than never.

I don’t even know how I get graduated last year, but I did. I’m learning to be okay with my unemployment period, I need some time. I can start doing nourishing things for myself like creative writing, build an exercise routine, improve my diet. I also have mental health and medical appointments to help with both sides.

I reckon I might need to tell my pdoc about the unhealthy behaviour I’ve engaged in. My psych already knows, but might be worth exploring it a bit. I hate admitting my addictive tendencies. I might also need to discuss disordered eating as well, finding out about gluten intolerance has triggered a bit of food anxiety

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It's really good to hear you are focusing on what your body needs right now @creative_writer . It's incredibly inspirational that you found the determination and strength to complete your studies, as well as volunteer, as well as everything else.

 

I can totally relate to how debilitating chronic pain can be. I really hope things improve for you.

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@tyme it's taken a lot of me. Sometimes it is hard not to shame myself when I do mess up. I know I have achieved a lot, but sometimes I feel like I'm should be doing better. I know "shoulding" doesn't help, I've had to log in some of these "shoulding" thoughts to my thought app. I also feel like the effects of what I did this morning have sort of worn off, so feeling a bit irritated and migrainey now (probably the come down). Trying to be kind to myself, it can be hard with the thoughts coming up for me.

Chronic pain can be debilitating for sure. It is a tricky one. It rough that you've also had to deal with chronic pain, how did you manage?

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Yeah, the 'shoulding' is a trap we all fall into, including me and sometimes, even my expectations of others @creative_writer 

 

There's a lot to learn!

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@tyme I feel like sometimes we put a lot of pressure on ourselves. Maybe I need to increase my window of tolerance, the urges are coming back. I know it won't help long term, it may help short term but effects will wear off over time. I don't know what I have gotten myself into