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18 Jun 2025 06:32 PM
18 Jun 2025 06:32 PM
I've just checked and had the same issue, but then it seems it's just taking longer to load @Oaktree . I'll keep an eye on it. Let me know if you still have issues.
18 Jun 2025 06:34 PM
18 Jun 2025 06:35 PM
18 Jun 2025 06:35 PM
18 Jun 2025 07:34 PM - edited 18 Jun 2025 07:36 PM
18 Jun 2025 07:34 PM - edited 18 Jun 2025 07:36 PM
Thanks for noticing I expressed cautious upset, and caring @Oaktree
I have known his father was German for about 9 years, and walked inclusively, carefully and diplomatically around it. I feel sometimes my peacemaking is taken for granted. If people don’t care or enquire politely or with care about my dead people, maybe that can be understood, as they did not know them and their struggles. He shouldn’t get so much sympathy and leeway, and he shouldn’t be dismissive of my grief and trauma load. I had to say something.
18 Jun 2025 07:38 PM
18 Jun 2025 07:51 PM
18 Jun 2025 07:51 PM
Sorry hun I was driving home.
I am so sorry that you were hurt.
I deeply care about your feelings.
Hugs to you and much sympathy sent to you
18 Jun 2025 07:54 PM
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