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27 Aug 2023 08:53 PM
27 Aug 2023 08:53 PM
That sounds lovely! I've never been to Kew. Even though I've lived in Melbourne for over 13 years, I still don't feel it is 'home'. I grew up on the shores of Sydney, and somehow still feel Sydney is home - even though I'd never want to go back to live there. @Glisten
Question: When can a person call a place they've moved to, home?
27 Aug 2023 10:00 PM
27 Aug 2023 10:00 PM
@tyme Home is a place you don’t want to escape.
The length of time doesn’t matter.
I was born in Sydney raised in Newcastle.
Had my children in Bundaberg - don’t judge me, it was a pretty little town 39 years ago.
Escaped QLD 1994 went to Perth ❤️
Now I’m trying to heal my trauma and escape QLD again :face_with_rolling_eyes:
28 Aug 2023 04:56 PM
28 Aug 2023 06:49 PM
28 Aug 2023 06:49 PM
Awww that is lovely @Shaz51 were your Daddy’s parents born there?
I admire your resilience. Since I have been in QLD, feel like the suburban wildlife is trying to eradicate me 🦎🐍🕷️🐡 birds like pterodactyls 😩
29 Aug 2023 07:27 AM
29 Aug 2023 07:27 AM
My dad's parents came here in 1918, newly married and grand dad built the house
30 Aug 2023 08:41 PM
30 Aug 2023 08:41 PM
@tyme I’m possibly not far from you, Im in Geelong.
I lived in Hoppers Crossing for about 10years to be closer to work.
after my mum died I decided to come home to Geelong.
I have a water phobia but love sitting looking out over the bay at the waves
30 Aug 2023 09:21 PM
30 Aug 2023 09:21 PM
@Patches59 That is fascinating - a water phobia. I have never met anyone with this.
I want ask you all about it. But that would be most inconsiderate of me.
Thank you for sharing.
30 Aug 2023 10:17 PM
30 Aug 2023 10:17 PM
No probs @Glisten I have a fear of drowning.
remember mum saying when I was very young and in baby bath she looked away for short period of time. When she looked back I was face down in the water. Swimming pools, streams, the beach etc I start to panic as soon as water gets approx halfway up my shin
30 Aug 2023 11:43 PM
30 Aug 2023 11:43 PM
31 Aug 2023 08:54 AM
31 Aug 2023 08:54 AM
I’ve had a fear of drowning for as long as I can remember, well before my mum told me about the baby bath incident
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