Hate choices

[Appleblossom]

Keeping busy in that way is so productive.  It is open and good for processing emotional stuff.  Wise choice.

Sometimes we do need time on our own.  Solitude can be very healthy. 

If your husband was frustrated it sometimes can sound uncaring ... but underneath that if he does love you ... you will both work it out.

I hope things work out for you in the end.

[Former-Member]

I started talking to my husband. He was very patient and kind and apologetic and very happy I opened up with him. I couldn't talk to friends though, Even via text so I baked food for them and my husband deliverd it to them so they know I love them.

I'm now talking to friends via text and my mum. But I'm already tiered from it. And my old bestfriend today started texting me about her depression and I so want to help her but I just got angry and wanted to yell at her and tell her that her issues are nothing and at least she has it good. But then I'm like I have zero clue how she is feeling and no one can gage it. But it just left me so drained that I just don't want to see anyone or talk and not even work.

I never use to get tiered of people but for some reason they are the worst.

[Appleblossom]

I'm glad that you are posting on Sane forum and worked it out a little with your partner.

Sometimes I think I cant stand people but cant live without them ... and every now and then, I get a glimpse of the beauty in someone who I might not have understood earlier ... then I get grumpy again .... Sigh