@Glisten I can hear your longing to be back home ... it will help to have a spot in familiar place.

@Former-Member If it helps your mood go for it ... I go by the 'good enough' standard ... can dress up for special things, concerts is often all black, churchwear is better than weekday wear. Have plenty clothes now, that I can mix and match ... I am glad I can afford sensodyne toothpaste ... stuff like that. I do alright, but can get funny about being too girly... anyway I am an old maid ... maybe not ... lol 

Take care both of you.