UPDATE

we had a conversation about how I was feeling and it turned into a heated debate. He wasn’t having a word of it. Am I crazy for wanting him to do more with his life? I feel like I’m running low on options and I don’t want to give up on him and I never will however I feel like maybe I should let him do what he wants and just focus on myself. Sucks we can’t improve on ourselves together. I respect that he is currently content sleeping and gaming i just feel that as his wife it’s my job to make sure he succeeds. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly welcomed