Hi @Songs58 

you are most welcome  I find it really hard to have conversations about my partner with family and friends who don't have the same dynamics to deal with and sharing on this forum and educating myself has truly helped make my journey not so frustrating or confusing ... also it's nice to feel normal 

all the best and I hope the book or at least parts of the book resonates for you - I read it on my kindle app on my phone 

anyway if you want to throw any more thoughts around - just tag me by putting the @ sign then wait for the drop down menu to appear and select my name or type So (the first two letters of Sophie1) and I should pop up in the menu to select - then I will see your tag in my notifications and know where to look to see your post