Hi @Former-Member,

I hope you can stay and find a place on this forum that is helpful for you. Bear in mind that, with the exception of moderators and community managers, all of us here are living our own experience with mental illness. This means the discussion goes in all sorts of directions at times, some not always to our preference. 

It's a very interesting discussion you have opened in regards to sexuality and mental illness. It's something that is so rarely talked about in detail and seems important because of that. To get back to that issue, I think that what consenting adults do sexually is their own choice. But the question that comes to mind with what you have revealed is whether you are okay with your sex life being so extremely passionate or whether you would like to see a change. I especially related to the part of your earlier message where you talked about looking into your husband's eyes and focussing on love, but that's me.

I hope I'm not out of line saying any of this. I'm always hoping for the best for everyone on this forum, however they choose to define that.