That's a really hard situation to find yourself in @Shaz51 - supporting someone who has attempted suicide is one of the toughest parts of being a carer. In this situation, more than others, you find yourself having to work with the health system as well as trying to support the person in your life. And that can be really hard. And often, that person doesn't want to follow up with additional support, which can mean the primary support comes from the family and friends around them. Having support for yourself in this situation is really, really important.