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Self-care Toolkit

Self-care Toolkit

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I was listening to the radio the other day and they were talking about Christmas and how families sometimes send care packages from home... but it got me thinking, I don't get care packages but I have my various survival kits, like for the dentist, the shopping centre...

 

This is what I have in one of mine

 

  • 150 piece jigsaw puzzle
  • mp3 player
  • Headphones
  • Notebook
  • Pen
  • Fidgets
  • Puzzle book
  • Essential oil roll on
  • Hot chocolate sachet
  • My BB8 keep cup
  • A few brain teasers
  • In a cute little kids backpack

So I was wondering with it coming upon Christmas, what does your self-care toolkit look like? What extra little things could you do or have on hand to help care for you during this potentially difficult period?

 

@MissGremlin @rav3n @Jynx @heartathome @Oaktree @Shaz51 @Chasingsunsets 

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Hello @avant-garde I love this thread too! I have your 'name' tattooed on my wrist. I love the word! 💛 

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That's amazingly cute @avant-garde - I think I have a wavy sun hole punch somewhere, I'll have to dig it out and add it!

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Kaiko Fidgets 

 

Designed by an Autistic kid (Probably grown up now. He was an early teen when I bought mine)

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Hi Friends going through a bit of a rough patch and spotted this thread maybe a self care kit for Christmas would be Ideal, but maybe some is from what I already have at home one is definately music and headphones using youtube on my laptop for music ,um Journaling would be next, Maybe a soft cushion or blanket to hold onto and calm my senses ,um a book to read or a colouring book would be nice also a face mask or a candle for relaxing thats all of thought of so far oh and having a cup of tea or coffee

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in fact maybe I should make myself a self care pack with some of those things for christmas to help get through christmas day 

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Hey @LostAngelI nearly missed your post!  I'm sorry to hear you're going through a rough patch! 

 

If you put an @symbol, a drop-down box will come up with people's names you can tag. It doesn't matter if you don't know them! Otherwise, people could easily miss your post.

 

Your toolkit sounds peaceful! I need a tool kit over Christmas too, as I'll be on my own! I'd definitely have to have my coffee! I drink de-caff now as I drink a lot. 

 

Have you got any plans over Christmas? 

 

 

 

 

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@heartathome @avant-garde @LostAngel @DogMan79 @Jynx 

 

I can't take credit for this as it came in my e-mail but it encourages you to be strategic about what online content you watch so you can maintain psychological equilibrium. Its been developed as a 7 day challenge to stop the internet monopolising your life.

 

A 7-Day Media Cleanse Challenge.

 

A media cleanse gives you:

  • Clarity instead of cognitive noise
  • Calm instead of constant activation
  • Intentional awareness instead of algorithmic manipulation
  • More energy for your life, work, and inner practice

This coming week, you have a golden opportunity to reset your system—and rebuild your media habits in a way that supports your goals, not drains your energy.  AND... best of all... to participate, all you have to do is a.) decide, and b.) follow the directions below...


Your 7-Day Media Cleanse Goals

1. Reduce news consumption to two short check-ins per day

We recommend:

Morning: 5–10 minutes of factual updates

Evening: 5–10 minutes if needed

No news within 1 hour of waking or 2 hours before bed【】

2. Eliminate algorithm-driven social media scrolling

For 7 days:

  • Turn off all social notifications
  • No “breaking news” alerts
  • Access social media only through a browser
  • Use a timer: maximum 10 minutes, twice per day【】

3. Replace emotional headlines with neutral summaries

This is the major “energy protection” component.
Using AI, you’ll get:

  • Short bullet-point summaries
  • Neutral language
  • Only the topics you care about
  • None of the fear-bait framing that hijacks the nervous system【】

Step-by-Step: Set Up Your AI-Assisted Media Filter

Here’s the simple version. 
Copy and paste these prompts into ChatGPT or your AI of choice.

1. Tell the AI what you actually care about

Pick 3–5 topics you want to monitor.
Examples:

  • Health & longevity research
  • Your region or city
  • Economic indicators
  • Geopolitics (broad trends only)
  • Science & technology, etc.

This aligns with the guide’s first step: “Identify what actually matters to you.”【】

2. Daily Summary Prompt

Copy/paste:

“Give me a neutral, 5-bullet summary of today’s major events related to [topics].
Filter out emotionally framed or sensational stories.
No political drama, no celebrity content, and no speculative hype.”

3. Weekly Deep-Dive Prompt

Copy/paste:

“Provide a once-weekly deeper analysis (5–7 paragraphs) on the most important developments within my chosen topics, using multiple perspectives and noting any media bias.”

4. Emotional-Neutralization Prompt

Copy/paste:

“Take the following headline and restate it as a neutral factual statement: [paste headline].”

This protects your nervous system from “emotional hijacking.”【】


Why This Challenge Matters

“Your brain adapts to what you feed it. A chaotic media diet creates a chaotic inner state.”【】

But with structure, filtering, and time-bound input windows:

  • Your stress levels drop
  • Your focus increases
  • Your vibrational state shifts upward
  • Your inner practice deepens
  • You regain a sense of clarity and agency
 
Get ready—this will be a strong and refreshing reset!

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@SmilingGecko 

This looks amazing! 

I think I like not having social media

Because I'm already winning at this