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20 Jun 2025 06:46 PM
20 Jun 2025 06:46 PM
Hi everyone. I’ve just realised that our trip away is going to be a huge step out of my current comfort zone. [edited by moderator]. But it is a challenge, to say the least. Does anyone have any support or advice from going from having complete control of your eating, WFH and often eating alone, to a week of eating every single meal with others? I’m really starting to dread the trip. What do I do to manage my emotions? I don’t want to be crying in a shared kitchen over having to have lunch.
20 Jun 2025 07:05 PM
20 Jun 2025 07:05 PM
Hi there @Friday06 , thank you for your post.
Just a quick note that your post above was edited by moderators to removed content that does not align with community guidelines.
I look forward to hearing other member's insights.
20 Jun 2025 08:56 PM
20 Jun 2025 08:56 PM
Oops! Thanks @tyme
20 Jun 2025 09:18 PM
20 Jun 2025 09:18 PM
All good @Friday06 . I think when people first use the forums, it's very common.
On a side note, I can relate to the feeling of being uncomfortable eating aronud people. The whole deal was too much sometimes.
I think for me, the way I approached it was not to think about it. Also, I booked events I needed to do straight after so I'd have an excuse to get away. But I know that's not always possible if you are on holidays with someone.
I also find it helpful when I don't have to seat facing people when eating. It's easier to sit side-by-side if that works.
I really hope it goes well for you. I hear the stress that this is causing!
22 Jun 2025 08:25 PM
22 Jun 2025 08:25 PM
hey @Friday06 , we've got a Sunday chat running if you are interested https://saneforums.org/t5/Social-space/Sunday-Social-Chat-22-6/td-p/1682174@sunday social chat -
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