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‎26-07-2022 10:20 PM
‎26-07-2022 10:20 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
hi @Appleblossom ! How did u find that, so cute! Pumpkin brains ðŸ§
Thanks for lightening my spirit.
I'm feeling little bit better, like maybe there are caring ppl around and that's enough for now.
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‎26-07-2022 10:51 PM
‎26-07-2022 10:51 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
Hi @maddison thank u so much for Ur message 💓
I second guess myself as well and I put myself in situations where I blame myself for things I couldnt have possibly prevented
I see a few silver linings,
I did express my pain to her, I told her I was in pain and distressed by crossing paths with her in the community, and the tone of that interaction. I'm glad I got to say that to her and give truth to what happened. Her reaction is irrelevant.
I agree with @TAB it's best to let go which I'm trying
I'm sorry u also struggle with second guessing urself, it's a hard experience and confusing at times.
My psychiatrist today shared with me that he has met many clinicians sadly who blame the patient for anything that goes wrong,
The key *, he said, was for a clinical to look deeper and see why the patient feels the way they do. Or what has happened in the dynamic to create the problems.
It was a nice moment with him.
Colony has an actress I like....I'm glad it is OK. What will u watch next?
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‎26-07-2022 11:00 PM
‎26-07-2022 11:00 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
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‎27-07-2022 07:28 PM
‎27-07-2022 07:28 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
Hi @TAB @Appleblossom @tyme @maddison @Eve7
They have believed my experiences and changed me case managers 🥳 🎉 🙃
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‎27-07-2022 07:30 PM
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‎27-07-2022 08:37 PM
‎27-07-2022 08:37 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
Hi @TAB thanks
I feel proud I spoke up against what happened and stayed clear and strong, and also expressed my feelings and reality.
It's not easy to do.
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‎27-07-2022 08:50 PM
‎27-07-2022 08:50 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
Well hopefully it all works out in the end @EternalFlower yes, sometimes its the hardest thing to stick up for yourself.
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‎27-07-2022 11:48 PM
‎27-07-2022 11:48 PM
Re: Trying makes it worse
@EternalFlower That is really good news. You no longer have to put up with substandard care, and I hope the person involved has been reprimanded. Each relationship on a health care team is unique, with some space for individuality but some bottom lines re duty of care.
Hope the next week is better for you.
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‎28-07-2022 10:18 AM
‎28-07-2022 10:18 AM
Re: Trying makes it worse
Thanks @Appleblossom @TAB
I spoke to my dr and I feel validated that they heard me, that my voice mattered.
I hope she will get some reprimand to protect others, just to be aware that we have rights
I feel like things are finally changing for me and it's a major victory
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‎28-07-2022 10:57 AM
‎28-07-2022 10:57 AM
Re: Trying makes it worse
Hopefully its all resolved now @EternalFlower